
05-08-2008, 03:02 AM
Hi Kenorv,
Actually most people who start a business are like you. I too am very shy and quiet. I am a techie nerd. When I first started my business, it was very difficult for me to talk to people. It took me about a year or so before I was able to get through my script and not have someone hang up on me.
The thing you have to recognize is that having a business is a process. It takes a while to learn the skills and gain the experience. Give yourself time to learn and grow. Also, remember something that I was taught recently, don't take it personally. If someone hangs up on you or is rude to you, don't take it personally.
Also, the way that I have overcame my fear and still am overcoming my fears is to just step out beyond my comfort zone. If you are scared, don't let your fear paralyze you.
Robert Kiyosaki, the man who wrote Rich Dad, Poor Dad, is also a very shy person, but he forced himself to learn how to sell. He failed for 2 years before he became the top salesperson at Xerox. Now, he is a very wealthy man.
Just keep moving forward Kenorv. Keep failing and making mistakes, but be sure that you learn from them and move forward. You will get better, I promise. If I can do it, I know anybody can. I even have a speech impediment, but most people don't even know this. The good news is this, the difference between successful people and unsuccessful people is that successful people failed more. I hope this makes you realize that it is ok to be shy, quiet and struggling.