
05-07-2008, 03:18 AM
You won't grow if you don't step out of your comfort zone. Building a business is not a race. Success in business is a process; therefore, it does takes time to build. This is because while you are building a business, you are also acquiring some skill-sets too. Delegating is nice to do, especially when you have the money to do so. Most people new to owning a business, start out with little to no money. I know this is my situation. But delegating will not going to help you to overcome your fears and it will not help you to learn skills that you will need to manage your own business.
In any event, Jim Rohn, who is one of my favorite motivational speakers, says that if you take the time to invest in yourself first, then your business will grow. You do need skills to own a business. You may not like cold calling and you really don't have to do cold calling but you do have to be willing to do some things that may make you feel uncomfortable at first.
I first encountered this when I tried to work the phones. It was difficult for me to answer my phone when customers would call me. When I did get the nerve to answer my phone, I failed over and over again. In addition to being shy, I also have a speech impediment that is really evident when I am nervous. Today, when i talk on the phone, most people cannot tell that I have a speech impediment nor can they detect any shyness. I am still shy and I still have the speech problem, but I have learned to overcome my handicaps.
In fact, on one of our live training calls, when me and my sponsor call people who have visited our websites, other members get a chance to listen to us as we each make these calls. I am the leader on these calls. I would have never gotten to this point if I had not taken the chance to step outside of my comfort zone. Overcoming your fears by stepping beyond your comfort zone will help you to attain the skills that you need so that your business can grow. It should not matter how long it takes to reach success; just as long as you stay long enough to achieve success. To me, growth, knowledge and experience is what matters most. The rest; such as success, will come once you have these in hand.